If you have never experienced the joy that being locked in chastity can bring, you don't know what you are missing. Perhaps you have had fantasies about being locked up, or maybe you never even thought about it at all. Maybe you thought chastity belts were a women only thing and that no one even makes a chastity device for men. Think about it. Chastity can be fun for both partners whether you play at it occasionally or do it on a semi-permanent or even permanent basis.
I know how difficult, even frightening, it can be just thinking about bringing up the subject to your wife (or girlfriend). So here are a few ideas that might make the job a little easier. So, perhaps, you can avoid the fear of rejection and/or humiliation that comes along with it.
First of all, if your wife is not even into being dominant once in awhile in bed, try dropping her some hints. Ask her if she is really satisfied with your sex life the way it has been going. If she answers “Yes,” then you have an opening. Tell her that you found a website that might be of interest to her. Don't worry, all the web sites you need are listed in the right hand column under “Special Links.” That's why they are there! If she gets suspicious (which happens), ask instead, if there is anything you can do for her to make it better. Better for HER!
If, on the other hand, she says, “No,” you will need to take another tack. You will have to show her that you can and want to be a better lover. It's not hard. But you have to exerciser a little self control. The next time you make love, REALLY make love to her. Do it just like you did when you were first dating (or newly weds). You have to make everything about HER. Do everything you know she likes and DON'T ask for anything in return. If she notices the improvement, now's the time to write her a letter. Tell her how you feel, that you want to make her sex life better. Tell you want her to take charge and tell you what she wants more of, what you can do around the house to make her happier. Tell her you love her and want to serve her better, in every way!
Then, when she gets curious about all this, send her to the appropriate websites I have listed in the right hand column. You may be surprised at the result. Not every woman who dominates her man runs around all day wearing thigh-high boots and carrying a riding crop in her hand. Most, in fact, are just ordinary housewives who have discovered that men do better when they are dominated.
Tease a man's cock and deny him an orgasm and he will quickly become any woman's slave. Lock him in a chastity device and he will grovel at her feet. If you don't agree with those last two statements, then why are you reading this blog???
Good luck. If you need any more advice, feel free to write me. I answer every serious question I receive. You might also check out the “To My Wife” letter on this blog.
nemo
I agree with you in principle. However, practice is something else. You say, "Tease a man's cock and deny him an orgasm and he will quickly become any woman's slave. Lock him in a chastity device and he will grovel at her feet. If you don't agree with those last two statements, then why are you reading this blog???" Well, I read this because I still belive in the principle. The problem is, the woman would have to be motivated to lock him and to deny him for this to work. Links to provocatively informative web sites will support the man's conviction, but may do nothing for the woman. Exactly as in political choices, logic is not the decisive factor.
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