Why Tease & Denial?

Some men (and a few women) are aware that a man whose orgasms are controlled by someone else makes a much better husband, lover, or slave. Why? Because most men don't understand that ejaculating is not the best part of sex. That's right! The best part of sex for a man is the build up toward ejaculation. Not the ejaculation itself.

In “normal” sex, when a man ejaculates, he's done. By that I mean he will no longer be interested in sex. It's not his fault, though. And it's not his partner's fault either. Blame Mother Nature. You see, when man ejaculates (in a normal manner) the body releases a hormone that tells the brain to do two things: 1) Stop restricting the blood flow out of the penis and allow it to deflate; and 2) Stop being aroused by sexual thoughts. So after a man ejaculates, how CAN he go on making love to the woman who just took him to what he thinks is Nirvana?

Men also masturbate. Yes, girls, it's true. Chances are, your guy masturbates a great deal more than you think. Admit it guys, you masturbate several times a week if not a day. There are VERY FEW men who do not masturbate on a regular basis. Now do you see the problem? They get sex (of some kind) whenever they want it. No wonder they are not as interested in pleasing the woman they love as even they would like to be. They just don't know how to change all that. But I do!

Those men who have discovered tease and denial have come to realize that sex is SO much better when they are normally denied ejaculation (normal ones anyway). What I mean by that, is there are other kinds of ejaculations besides “normal” ones. These are called “Ruined” orgasms. A ruined orgasm is one in which the semen is restricted or blocked entirely during ejaculation. If you want to read more about ruined orgasms, I suggest you read my other blog titled Becoming a Mistress. I will cover numerous ways to ruining an orgasm there.

Here, I will tilt everything a little more toward the male submissive/slave rather than the Dominant. I hope you enjoy it.