Here are a few captioned photos for your entertainment. You may have to click on them in order to read them, but I hope they make you think just a bit.
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
- I have read quite a bit lately about “being forced” to perform rather than being asked. Having been a Master for quite along time in my life, I am fully aware that some female slaves prefer to be asked while the vast majority would rather be told what to do. It's a matter of control. Most of the female slaves (not subs) definitely prefer to be told to do things. The main reason I have found for this is that it takes away any decision-making on their part.
- Men, being quite different from women, may have more difficulty in subjecting themselves to being told or “forced” to perform (not just sexually). At least that would be the common misconception. Most of the male subs/slaves/hubbies/what-have-you that I have met, myself included, would most definitely prefer to be forced/ordered to perform any task their partner wants them to perform. (See pole in right column)
- Let's face it, if you are in a female led relationship (FLR), especially where chastity is involved, chances are you would rather be told what to do instead of being asked. Most of us (yes, including me) want our partner/Mistress/Goddess to give us orders as opposed to making requests. I don't know what it is that makes us this way. Perhaps it's genetic, maybe it's just fantasy, or maybe, just maybe, we get tired of having to live up to societies expectations of us.
- Whatever the reason, those of us who have elected to live in a FLR want to be controlled, even used. At the very least, we want to be controlled in the bedroom if not in every aspect of our relationship. So for those women out there who have been, perhaps, timid (or have guilt feelings) about giving orders... Try it. You may be pleasantly surprised at the result.
Posted by nemo at 12:04 PM