Thursday, September 29, 2011

Marathon Tease

Yesterday, Mistress decided to make my tiny teases based on milking me through ruined orgasms. She started out by asking me if I would like to cum. Of course my answer (stupid though it may have been) was a resounding “Yes”. That was all she needed to begin her planned teases.

She got Charlie hard by licking and sucking on him during the first session. When she was satisfied that I was fully aroused, she stood up and announced that I would not be getting that orgasm anytime soon. That's when I realized my mistake.

The next time I was called to the bedroom, Mistress began telling me about her plans to give me a day of ruined orgasms. As she told me this she was raking her fingernails back and forth across my nipples. I have very sensitive nipples and having them touched always turns me on. Naturally, Charlie got hard rather quickly and Mistress left me standing there wondering exactly what she had in mind.

During my third trip to the bedroom, Mistress said that she was planning to see just how many ruined orgasms she could give me in 8-hour period. Needless to say, it didn't take long for Charlie to get hard while she teased my balls with her fingernails. I wanted more information about this ruined orgasm marathon Mistress was planning.

It was several (very long) hours before I was called to the bedroom again. I spent most of that time thinking about about all the things Mistress could do to me in order to get me to the edge of cumming so that she could ruin my orgasm. There are so many possibilities, some sounded like fun while others sounded scary.

As Mistress fondled my bottom and balls at the same time, she explained how she intended to start this marathon (whenever that might be). She would be to tie me down, oil Charlie up and stroke him until I was ready to shoot. Then she would simply ruin it by stopping all contact with my body.

During the next bedroom visit, Mistress told me that she might make me masturbate while she watched me, urging me on, until time to ruin that one also. She told me this while using both hands to gently stroke Charlie making him achieve full erection in only a few seconds.

Finally, during my last visit to the bedroom that evening, Mistress sucked Charlie to full erection before announcing that during the planned marathon, she would be saving all the cum for me to drink at the end of the day. Now I know many of you love to drink your own cum, but I am one of those who would rather not... ever... drink my own cum.

Needless to say, I did not sleep well last night...


Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Locked Again... Finally!

Yes, Mistress Ivey has finally locked me back up in chastity. I don't mind saying that I missed my steel cage. And just to add to my humiliation she posted a photo of my privates all locked up.

How long has it been? Let me see, 93 days! Much too long for my taste. But her “Honor System” experiment is over at last! Oh, yeah, she teased me some during all that time, but not the way I wanted it. She would take me into the bedroom and get me nice and hard (several times a day), then just leave me hanging. There were no long, slow teases that I love. She said that would just make me want to masturbate too much to resist.

The good news? I'm not sure there is any. Before replacing my cage, Mistress, rather roughly masturbated me. She stroked my cock with some rather hot “warming” oil until I was on the brink of orgasm, then she ruined it. She repeated the procedure three more times just to make sure my balls were completely empty. Trust me, they were. My cock was also very sore. The oil didn't keep her hand from chaffing me a bit. On second thought, had she done it that rough without the oil I might still be curled up on the bed in pain.

Anyway, I am happy to say that I am back in the cage now, and I hope to be there for a long time. Of course, I also hope she will remove it from time to time for some real teasing. And by-the-way, She told me that if I am not good for her, she will put the spikes back in as well. Just between you me and wall, I think she will find an excuse to put them in anyway. You see, I modified the “Points of Intrigue” that came with my CB3k to fit the steel cage. That way, she can still use them no matter which device she puts me in.

I am sure that I will be giving her a large number of orgasms in the days, weeks, or months to cum (pun intended). So I have a lot to look forward to. I will keep you posted as to the progress since that seems to be what many of want to read about. Besides, I love the opportunity to reminisce while writing.

nemo :)

Sunday, September 25, 2011

Fantasies Are Fun!

Remember when you had all those fantasies about being controlled by your lover? Remember how you just knew things would be great! How much fun you would have tending to her needs and putting your own needs second to hers? Remember when you would occasionally masturbate just thinking about having your cock locked up and only getting released when SHE wanted it? Those were they days...

Now that reality has set in, is it as much fun as you hoped it would be? Are your needs being met by what she wants? Are you as happy as you thought you would be? Let's hope so. But for many, reality rarely measures up to the fantasies we had before. Before the reality hit, that is. I have seen both sides of the fence, having once been a Master to my wife/slave. Things were different then. I was in control. I was the one who decided when, where and how we would have sex. Of even IF we had sex. I was in control of HER orgasms. So, would I trade places again?

The answer to that is more complicated than it sounds. I wanted to give control to Mistress. I wanted to be relieved of all the stress of making every decision that came along. But that's not the question, is it? The question is, is my current situation what I thought it would be? The answer is more complex than a simple “yes” or “no”. Yes, I am happy not to be making those decisions any longer. After all, that was the cause of most of my stress.

However, Mistress has desires that I never knew existed. She wants things from me that were never a part of my fantasies. She doesn't seem to want sex (or to tend to my sexual needs) as often as I had imagined she would. But when I look back and compare my fantasies with reality, it's not fair to her (or myself).

I had to face reality. The reality that I can't have everything my way. If I did, how then would she be in control? So how do I reconcile reality with the fantasies I once had about life in a female led relationship? I focus on the one thing that I wanted more than anything else... Her in charge. No, I don't get everything I want. Who really does? I mean, even the one charge has to be cognizant of his/her partner's needs to be happy. After all, happiness is what this is all about, isn't it? So compromise is how we accomplish things in this world.

By focusing on the things that I DO get, I can pacify my desire for what I don't. Also, being the best husband and lover I can be, gets me a great deal more than not. Therefore, I try to be the best, most attentive, most caring, most obedient, husband I can be. I still may not get everything I would like, but I avoid many things I don't want, as well. It seems to be a good compromise. I don't get teased as much as I would like, but I don't paddled as much as I could be. (Those of you who love the pain may want to take a different tack.)

Talking with others has opened my eyes to a few things. First of all, ask yourself this question, “Does my Mistress really know and understand my fantasies?” If you can't honestly answer, “Yes,” to that question, then you need to be communicating more. Take the time, letters, emails, or better yet, just talking with her can bring you a great deal of joy and even more of what you want from her.

I guess what I am trying to convey here is, don't dwell on those things you don't have, rather, take joy in the ones you do. Life will never be exactly what we would dream, but you can always make it better, if you try.


Friday, September 23, 2011


Sometimes all we need is a little eroticism to get our juices (and fantasies) really flowing. I offer these to help you through your day. I hope you like them.

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Uh Oh!

Sometimes we love dreaming about what life would be like if our significant other would only take charge and make us behave. The problem is, their dreams just might be different from ours...

So... Be careful what you wish for!

Sunday, September 18, 2011

More Scary Stuff

Here are three more captioned photos that fall into the "Scary Stuff" category.

Saturday, September 17, 2011

Scary Stuff

I have created over 200 captioned photos over the last year. Some have shown up in some pretty strange places. I don't always get credit for them, but that doesn't really matter to me. The subject matter often changes from the "makes you think" category to the "OMG" category and everything in between. Here are three more. I will let you decide what category these belong in...

Thursday, September 15, 2011

Can You Still Get It Up?

I have seen a great deal of controversy on the net about the effects of long term chastity for men. The question is, does your cock lose it's ability to get hard after a long period of lockup? I have heard stories of men who spent a long time locked up in chastity who claim that they could no longer get hard once the cage was removed.

The problem is, I have never spoken with anyone who actually experienced the problem for more than a few days. I can understand how the mental aspect of the pain received when the penis attempts to get erect with a restrictive cage (or even spikes) could cause a temporary lack of erection. But my question is, is that just a mental block caused by the pain or is it a physical thing? Frankly, I don't see any reason why anyone would permanently lose the ability to achieve an erection just because it was difficult (or impossible) for a given length of time.

So help me out here. Post a comment (your email address is NOT recorded) and tell me if you have experienced this and how long you were locked up when it happened. Also, was it permanent or temporary? If it was only temporary, how long did it last?

Thinks in advance,


Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Do You Know Your KH?

Just because you have been married for X years does not mean that you know what kind of Mistress or Key Holder your wife will make. Without a great deal communication between the two of you, you really can't be sure just what she will do. Now I know that that is part of the attraction (not knowing) but you MUST know that your own limits will not be crossed.

This is where many people will tell you that that is what contracts are for. But let's face it, most married couples will just blow off the whole contract idea for one reason or another. Maybe they think they know each other well enough, or they have an understanding, or they are just plain too lazy to take the time to put one together. But whatever the reason, far too many will not have a contract.

Okay, so let's assume you are trusting enough to by-pass the contract thing. What are you going to do when your KH starts to neglect you and your needs. Or, worse, she cuckolds you when you “thought” that was well beyond your limits. It does happen. You should make sure that there is a way for you to discuss how things are going and what things you want to try and DON'T want to try.

Perhaps you never thought of this, but what happens if your KH decides she is tired of that teasing stuff? What happens if she no longer teases you at all. Are you prepared for that? Or is that something you want to talk about BEFORE it happens? You decide. I know the chastity credo is “Be careful what you ask for,” but perhaps it should be “Know your Key Holder.”

Just like men, women's fantasies, desires, likes and dislikes can (and often do) change. Make sure you have a way to adjust to those changes. For example, I know of one couple who began to play with chastity. The wife was reluctant at first because she was not comfortable being in charge. After only a few months, she began to enjoy being quite sadistic. She moved from the occasional hesitant spanking to some pretty severe paddling and whipping. They solved this problem by joining a local BDSM group where she was able to release her sadistic side on some men who knew how to take it (as well as liked it). She's back to applying more gentle corrections when he needs it.

I would suggest that you BOTH make a list. In it you should list all those fantasies you have always had. Mark the ones that you would never really want to come true. Include a list of activities that you enjoy as well as a list of things that you NEVER want to do. Both of you need to make these lists and then you should actually sit down and talk about them. Compare your lists, modify them if you think of something else. Don't be afraid to talk about what you want or expect from a key Holder. It's your cock, for now, so protect it.

So, back to my original question, how well do you really know your KH?


Tuesday, September 13, 2011

More On Spikes

Those lovely, wonderful, nasty, painful, darned spikes! What would we ever do without them? Well, experience a great deal less pain, that's what! But then, life would not be nearly so interesting, now would it?

Monday, September 12, 2011

Those Darned Spikes! pt 3

Sometimes I love it when those spikes dig in. Well, okay, I admit it's not the spikes I love, it's what Mistress is doing to turn me on that I love. And when I know it's only to make them dig in, that's when I like it most. I guess it's the knowledge that she is doing it on purpose that makes it all wonderful. But I hate waking up in pain knowing she is not enjoying my pain. It takes all the fun out of it.

Sunday, September 11, 2011

Those Darned Spikes! pt 2

Why is it that so many women seem to enjoy seeing us suffer? I mean, being teased while those little spikes do their worst cause us so much pain! Thank Heaven for cruel Mistress'!

Saturday, September 10, 2011

Those Darned Spikes!

I am going to present a series of captioned photos that I have created over the years. Since I have so many, I will post them a few at a time. If you have never had the pleasure of feeling what those darned things can do to you, you don't know what you are missing. Perhaps, in the future you will find out. Speak to your KH if you need to know. I'm sure she will accommodate you...

Thursday, September 8, 2011


There are a lot of reasons to cry, but I would rather Mistress didn't know any of them. But, of course, she always knows just how to make me do it... And she always has a backup plan in case I don't cry at her first attempt.

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

What She Wants...

That's what it's all about, isn't it? I mean when you come right down to it, that is what we tell her when we are trying to talk her into becoming our Mistress. We say things like, "You can do anything you want to me," and, "I will do ANYTHING you tell me to, I promise." Then they finally agree. Now we are stuck with with the reality of it all...

Extra Leverage

Sometimes we can't always convince our wives to do what we need. So we look elsewhere for a key holder. However, in doing so, our key holder has an extra bit of leverage...

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Getting What You Want?

Most of the time, our objective is to give her what she wants. The problem is, the true objective is to get what we want as well. So, are you getting what you want or not?

Monday, September 5, 2011

Having Fun Yet?

Often times what is fun for one is not always fun for the other. Sometimes, even though in chastity, we can make a pest of ourselves where sex is concerned. I know the objective with turning over control is make us want only to please her, but there are those times when even that becomes more than she is willing to put up with...


Don't you just hate it when they find a way to make the punishment fit the crime? At least in their mind? I know, we secretly want all the denial, but if you come right out and tell her that, she will NEVER lock you up.

Sunday, September 4, 2011

Stop Crying...

Sometimes you get what you want. Other times, you get exactly what you deserve. The question is, which is which?

Thursday, September 1, 2011


Sometimes they're worth it, sometimes they're not. However, most of the time we act without thinking about the consequences. Therefore, we are left to make our assessment after the fact...