I have gotten many different opinions concerning release dates, of late. The question is, which is better, a fixed date or an unknown date? I am sure that one is not particularly better than the other, but most couples have their own opinions on the matter. Here are what I see as the pros and cons of each.
Pros: Many people like to have a specific day that they can look forward to. A point on the calendar that makes them feel more secure. Secure in the knowledge that, unless other factors interfere with it, there is a date set when they will get their desired release. Sometimes, the KH (or Mistress) can make changes, extensions, or even shorten the period before release, and that gives her some flexibility. But having a date that the chaste can point to as the day he will get an orgasm, can be an incentive for him.
Cons: What happens if the day arrives but one (or both) of you don't feel up to engaging in the activities that would be required to insure a satisfactory release? That is, maybe the KH isn't feeling well, or at least not up to the task that particular day. Or, suppose something else (beyond your control) prevents the release and both partners are left disappointed. Stuff happens. Maybe a “Target Date” would be better. Something to shoot for, but that is flexible.