Monday, December 26, 2011

Xmas Orgasm

Well, I am one of the many who got a Xmas orgasm. Okay, it wasn't a full orgasm. Mistress made sure I understood that it was a gift for us both. That is, I got to cum, and she got to ruin it. Whatever makes her happy. Right!?

It wasn't all bad. After all, an orgasm is an orgasm. I have learned that, if nothing else in my years as a sex slave. (Well, that's how I like to think of myself.) I don't know about the rest of you, but I'll take any orgasm I can get. Yes, I enjoy the fact that I am made to wait a good long time between full orgasms, but a number of ruined orgasms, as long as they make Mistress happy, are something I am proud to give her.

So, if you ask me what I got for Xmas this year, I'll tell you an orgasm. If you ask Mistress what I got, she will tell you it was ruined. One of the few joys in life for Mistress, is ruining my orgasms, especially if I think it won't be ruined.

Anyway, I hope you all had a very merry Xmas and I wish you a great New Year!


Saturday, December 24, 2011

Xmas is Here!

Well, it's that time of year, again. The snow is falling (in places) and the mistletoe has been hung. Perhaps I should have put on my belt? Anyway, this is the time for good will toward men (and women, of course) and the time to give without thought of reward. For those of us in chastity, it means doing the unexpected for our Key Holders.

I will not reveal what I have planned, or what I got Mistress for Xmas, but I only hope it will be greatly appreciated. I know it's the thought that counts, but sometimes we hope for more!

Like many men in chastity, I hope for a Christmas full of joy and, maybe, some “relief”? For those of you in chastity, I hope you get the relief you have been so patiently(?) awaiting, if that's what you want. And may your KH be kind.


Sunday, December 18, 2011

Not Being Teased

As a sub/slave there are times when I wish Mistress would tease me more than she does. You may think I am just greedy, but there have been weeks at a time that I received no teasing what so ever. Now I know that it is entirely up to Mistress to decide when, where, and how I am teased. But frankly, there are times when I feel I am being ignored.

I have a suspicion I am not alone in this. I have seen comments (and received a few) that indicate some other guys get the same feeling from time to time. I can't speak for them, but in my case, it's a matter of mismatched libidos. That is, I want it, she doesn't. I suppose, if I were in a non-chaste situation, that is, a marriage that does not include male chastity, I might be able to sit down and discuss it with her. But as a slave, I really can't do that.

I have made the efforts. That is, I have done my chores, offered to pleasure her, dropped hints, and even steered conversations in that directed. However, I have been met with the same responses over and over again. She just isn't interested in sex.

Now that's scary! I have to wonder, is it me? Or is it really her lack of drive? I keep getting told that it is really her lack of drive, but I have been totally unable to find any sort of stimulant that will get her “in the mood” when I desperately need some attention. I always feel as if it's my fault. I suppose that is because, as a slave, I always think there should be something more I could do, but that really isn't the case.

I know in my heart that she is often just too busy to bother tending to my needs, but that isn't always the case, either. There are other times when she just plain doesn't have the sex drive that I wish she did, let alone one as strong as mine. I also know there are so often other things in her life that detract from our sexual togetherness.

In the past, pre-chastity, I could have (and often did) take matters into my own hands, and life went on. But, of course, my chastity sort of gets in the way, if you know what I mean. So masturbation is definitely NOT the answer.

I guess my only recourse is to sit back and wait until she gets “in the mood” and be happy with what little attention I do get. But I am guessing that I am not alone. There must be others out there who have (or have had) this problem. So, what have you done in this situation? Or what would you suggest that I do?


Friday, December 16, 2011

Captioned Photos: What?

I've asked "why" so it only seems right to ask "what" now. What, as in: What did you say? Or: what do mean? Or even: What have I gotten myself into!? These are questions we often ask ourselves when faced with options or choices, or the results there of, that are not what we expected. Here are some "What?" photos for your approval...

So... What do you think?


Thursday, December 15, 2011

Captioned Photo: Why?

Sometimes, because we want her to do things that put us in our place. Sometimes because we like to be treated like she owns us. But there are times when the 'what' and the 'why' don't really add up in our minds, but we must submit anyway...


Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Captioned Photos: How Long?

One of our (chastised males) favorite fantasies seems to be the possibility of longer and longer periods of  orgasm denial. I don't even know what the attraction is and I have these fantasies myself. I guess that's why they make such a good subject for captioned photos. Whether it's been a week, a month, or even longer, we always seem to want more. And if teasing is included, well, we just can't get enough...


Sunday, December 11, 2011

Captioned Photos: Being Mean

Almost every male in chastity that I have talk with agrees that they want their Key Holder (or Mistress, or wife, or whatever she is) to be mean. The problem is, everyone has a different definition of "mean." Of course, that includes the Key Holder. Therefore...

So, I guess the moral is, "Be careful what you ask for!"

Saturday, December 10, 2011

Captioned Photos: Thinking?

There are so many times in our lives when we wish we could read minds. Well, here are a few photos complete with those thoughts. But be forewarned, some times it is best not to know those thoughts...


Friday, December 9, 2011

Captioned Photos: Cuckolding

Something that many of us fantasize about, but the reality may not be what we dreamed. Then again, it just might! Whatever your fantasy, I hope it comes true for you. As for me, I'm still on the proverbial fence. But here is some food (photos?) for thought...


Thursday, December 8, 2011

Captioned Photos: Mixed

I have saving these photos until I had more in each category, but have decided to go ahead and post them because I never seem to get around to making new ones like them. Oh, I am sure that once they are posted, I will come up several more in each category. You know how it goes...


Monday, December 5, 2011

Captioned Photo: Ever

I hope this never happens to you, but there is always that possibility. Let's face it, we can't tell them what to do, and they so often find ways of tormenting us more than we had ever expected. But I guess that's what the thrill is all about. Isn't it!?


Saturday, December 3, 2011

Captioned Photo - Trouble

Have you done something that just felt right only to realize that you should have never done it in the first place?


Thursday, December 1, 2011

For Your Enjoyment

Sometimes when we kiss... Oh sorry. Didn't realize you were there. That's because I wasn't paying attention. Neither Mistress Ivey nor myself will be posting much this week as she is recovering from minor surgery this week. So I thought I would offer a few Captioned Photos to keep you entertained until she is back on her feet. Just so you know, she is fine. It was a routine procedure that she has many times before. So no need to be concerned.


Monday, November 28, 2011

Humiliation of Masturbation

 I don't know about you, but masturbating in front of Mistress can be very humiliating. Especially when she wants it to be! Edging is especially difficult, because I know she won't let me cum on my own!


Friday, November 25, 2011

Masturbation Fantasy

Just because the title says masturbation, don't think for a minute that this fantasy is about me taking things into my own hands. Not for a second!

I am actually talking about all those web-teases you find all over the internet. Yes, Mistress Ivey and I have started our own web-tease website, but this isn't a plug for that. What this is, in fact, is a serious discussion of another way to use those web-teases. A way for the chaste male (who actually has a key holder) to utilize them.

I know that 98+% of web-teases are written for men who don't have key holders, or who aren't even into chastity at all. Let's face it, they are designed to attract men who would otherwise not have a partner to tease them, to have some fun (pain even) with their masturbation. I very much doubt that such sites would work if aimed at the female of the species. There are various reasons for that, which I am not prepared to go into in this post. But if you think about it, women (in general) are just not as interested in that sort of thing as we men.

Okay, now you have managed to find (or convince) a partner to be your key holder, Mistress, Master, or whatever they prefer to be called, to lock you up and tease you sexually while still denying you an orgasm, or at least, a full orgasm for some period of time. But what happens when the novelty of it all begins to wear off? I mean, what happens when she gets tired of having to tease you and deny you, even when she gets what she wants from you? What happens when her imagination has pretty much run the gambit of tease and torment ideas she has?

Well, the obvious answer is that things slow down. The teasing gradually becomes mundane, even boring (perhaps for you both) and life is not as exciting as it was when things first got started. What you need at that point (or before you reach that point) is an infusion of new ideas! But where can you turn? Let's face it, most of the stories you find all over the Internet are pretty repetitive. That is, once you have read a couple dozen of them, there is nothing new in any of the others.

Web-tease can be your answer. There are so many things that a woman can learn from a web-tease site if she will only take the time to read a few. Yes, they are mainly about masturbation. But does your KH make you do anything like what these teases ask of you? Probably not. But read a few for yourself, and see if you don't start fantasizing about your KH making you do some of the things these web-teases expect you to do. If you do, then I have some simple advice for you.

Talk with your KH. Tell her which ones you read and how they made you feel. Ask her to read a few for herself. If she reads them she just might come up with a few ideas of her own. New ways to tease you, and torment you. She might even get excited about teasing you more often. Wouldn't that be great!?

So, whether you use the site Mistress and I have set up, or any of the other web-tease sites out there, makes no difference. But I strongly recommend that you give it a try. Hey, it can't hurt!


Wednesday, November 23, 2011


Disappointment is something we (chastised males) have to get used to. But there are disappointments, and then there are disappointments. I hope yours are never like this!

Happy Thanksgiving!

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Captioned Photo: Don't touch!

There are times in a man's life when he can't seem to keep him mind on what he knows he should, even though he knows it might get him into trouble. It at those times when when so often forgets his place and throws caution to the wind...


Thursday, November 17, 2011


"Humor... It's a difficult concept." Or so says Kirsty Alley in a Star Trek movie. Well, I say humor is more like beauty... It's in the eye of the beholder. That is, it's funny, depending on your point of view. Otherwise, it can just be scary! I offer the following as examples of what I mean...

See what I mean?


Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Longer Waits

Mistress recently concluded a poll that indicated many of us want to wait longer between orgasms. Well, here is a series of captioned photos that should make you think about what you are asking for. After all, we all know we should be careful about that...