On Fantasies

We men, submissive or not, seem to fantasize a great deal. We can't help it, it's just the way we were made. If we continue to fantasize about one thing, our fantasies become real desires. The more we think about a particular fantasy, it seems the more we “think” we want it to come true. But as we all know, the reality almost never lives up to the fantasy.

Let's take cuckolding for example. I, myself, have a few fantasies along those lines. I fantasize, for example, that Mistress takes on a second male slave and not only has sexual relations with him (making me watch, of course) but also forces me to participate in a bi-sexual way. By that I mean, I my have to clean her up after the other slave has intercourse with her, but I may also have to lick (or suck) him clean. I think any other type of cuckolding would be too much for me to handle.

However, if the relationship were purely a sexual one, and the other male and I were on the same footing (so to speak) I could, most likely, handle it. But if she were seeing him on the side, or if I thought there was more to their relationship than just a sexual one, I would, most likely, get very jealous and it could even ruin our marriage.

I have other fantasies that I would love to keep as fantasy for one reason or another, but I love it when Mistress teases me about making them come true. So I always tell her about all my fantasies, but I make sure she understands which I would never want to realize. Open communication is the best form of relationship strengthening I know of. It prevents so many things from going wrong that I could not begin to list them here.

Just a note: I am going to change the format of this blog just a bit. I will, in the future, be including more of the things that are going on in our daily lives. Some of you have indicated that you would be interested in that sort of thing, so, one way or another, I will try to include them. Thanks for reading!

nemo

Off Line!

Mistress and I have been off-line for the past 31 days, mostly due to circumstances beyond our control. The fact is, we moved and it took awhile for us to get an internet connection installed. But we are back! And we will both be posting again in the next few days.

Thanks for all your emails and your patience in our absents.

nemo

Things to Make You Think

Here are a few captioned photos for your entertainment. You may have to click on them in order to read them, but I hope they make you think just a bit.

nemo

Being Forced

I have read quite a bit lately about “being forced” to perform rather than being asked. Having been a Master for quite along time in my life, I am fully aware that some female slaves prefer to be asked while the vast majority would rather be told what to do. It's a matter of control. Most of the female slaves (not subs) definitely prefer to be told to do things. The main reason I have found for this is that it takes away any decision-making on their part.

Men, being quite different from women, may have more difficulty in subjecting themselves to being told or “forced” to perform (not just sexually). At least that would be the common misconception. Most of the male subs/slaves/hubbies/what-have-you that I have met, myself included, would most definitely prefer to be forced/ordered to perform any task their partner wants them to perform. (See pole in right column)

Let's face it, if you are in a female led relationship (FLR), especially where chastity is involved, chances are you would rather be told what to do instead of being asked. Most of us (yes, including me) want our partner/Mistress/Goddess to give us orders as opposed to making requests. I don't know what it is that makes us this way. Perhaps it's genetic, maybe it's just fantasy, or maybe, just maybe, we get tired of having to live up to societies expectations of us.

Whatever the reason, those of us who have elected to live in a FLR want to be controlled, even used. At the very least, we want to be controlled in the bedroom if not in every aspect of our relationship. So for those women out there who have been, perhaps, timid (or have guilt feelings) about giving orders... Try it. You may be pleasantly surprised at the result.

nemo

Those Pesky Spikes

New Section

I have added a new section in the right-hand column: Great Videos. This is where I will list tease and denial videos, ruined orgasm videos, and post orgasm torture videos that I think are pretty good. There are literally thousands of these types of videos out there, but most really suck. So I decided to pass along some that I have found that stand out from the rest. (Look for it right under the "Followers" section.)

I hope you will agree, that the videos I list are a cut above most videos out there. If you would like to send me a link to a video that you think is good enough to be included here, just send the link directly to me at: nemo_slave7(at)gmail and I will review it.

Don't be shy. If you see a really good video (no matter how long) please send me the link and I will find the time to review it.

Thanks, nemo.

Being Milked

I don't know about the rest of you, but enjoy having my cock milked by my Mistress. I'm not talking about a full orgasm that drains you of all your energy and desire for sex. Far from it! I am talking about a series of ruined orgasms that totally drain all your semen (ejaculate, cum) until you can't cum any more. Let me tell you one way in which Mistress Ivey sometimes chooses to milk me dry.

My wrists are normally fastened together using leather cuffs and a 10-12 inch chain between them. This permits me to lay on my back without laying in my hands. Of course, it also traps my hands at my sides so that I can't interfere with what Mistress may want to do. Normally, I will be laid on my back on the bed, or on a table, or somewhere it will be easy for the have access to my cock and balls.