Things You Want To Here (or not!)

As a way of explaining some of what I am talking about when I say that there are things you want your Mistress (or Queen, Goddess, etc.) to say or do to you, I present this set of photos. These are things that, for some, would only be fantasy, while others would hope they really come true. Each of us is different, and so will have different views of each photo. Is it something you want here to do, or something you just want her to say???

 

There you have it. You decide which you would want to hear as a fantasy and which you would like to see come true. How you let your Domme know, it up to you,

Good Luck!

slave nemo

Approaching Her

One of the questions I get most often, and so does my wife (Ms. Ivey), from men is, “How do I approach my wife about this?” The word “this” can be replaced with just about any sexual thing a man might want to do. It doesn't really matter what “this” is because the answer is always the same.

Every man, woman, and child on the planet is different. Big shock! That's what makes our world work. I remember an old Twilight Zone episode in which a man was given the opportunity to see what life would be like if everyone was like him. Everyone had his attitude about everything. He found he couldn't get along with anyone, not because people were different from him, but because of his own attitudes. He realized that his problems were all of his own making and not the result of what other people thought.

My point is, there is no one answer to the question of “how do I approach my wife about (whatever)?” I have tried and tried to come up with an answer that might work on more women than any other, but there just isn't a simple answer. So here is my response...

If you want to tell your spouse that you have an interest in this or that, there are two basic approaches: 1) you can sit her down and have a serious talk with her, or 2) you can drop hints or little suggestions that will lead her to the point where she will ask you about it. The first option (talking) is the one I usually recommend, simply because I have always found it easier to come right out and say whatever is on my mind.

Suppose you want your wife to lock you up in a steel chastity device, but don't know how to bring up the subject. If you don't feel that you can come right out with it for fear she will laugh at you, or get angry because you are a “pervert” of some sort, then you may need to drop a few hints before actually talking about it. But I still vote for the direct approach. It gets everything out into the open right away.

The best approach is to tell her that there is something that you want to talk about, and you don't want her to laugh or put you down for it. Tell her it is something that you feel strongly about and that you need to get it out in the open. Set up a time, maybe after dinner, and then keep the appointment.

Start your discussion by telling her that if she thinks you are crazy or perverted, that you will simply drop the subject and bring it up at a later date. Be serious. Don't laugh that nervous laugh of yours. Instead, tell her that you want to do something to improve your sex lives and that you have a suggestion if she is willing to listen. Tell her that you will be willing to listen to her if she has any suggestions as well. Let her know that you are not trying to pressure her. You simply want to discuss the problem and get her input as well.

Don't get upset if she thinks the idea is crazy. Give it some time. In a week or so you can bring it up again by simply asking her if she has given your idea any more thought. Once you have opened the door to the idea, you will should find it much easier to bring it up again. Be persistent. Don't pressure her, but keep your idea in her mind. Keep her thinking about it. Maybe, she will eventually come around.

Slave nemo

Chastity Captioned Photos 1-5

Thought you might enjoy these. That and they might give your partner some ideas... (Evil wink)

nemo

Activities for submissive men

One of my readers has suggested that I post more (and I assume, varied) ideas for sexual activities. There is an inherent problem with doing that... This blog is for men, specifically submissive men (at least in bed). I doubt I have many female readers, but, of course, you could always forward a link or my feed to that special woman in your life. You see, telling your partner what it is you want can go one of several ways, not the least of which is that she will feel you are trying to top from the bottom and that just won't work. Besides, if you have to tell her what you want, it will, most likely, remove some of the enjoyment from the experience if she does decide to do it. Sort of a catch 22, I'm afraid.

However, how you tell her is up to you. My job is to give you some ideas, so I will try. You may get some ideas from my posts, anyway. Even the Captioned Photos are full of ideas!

Before I go any further, I would like to put out a plea for those of you who have ideas of your own, or who may have had some, shall we say, uniquely enjoyable experiences, please put them into a comment. If not on this post, at lease somewhere we can find it. If they are really good, I may re-post them for you.

What makes an activity exciting and enjoyable? Of course, it varies from person to person, but in general it is the thrill of something new, unique, and, yes, even scary! You know what I mean. If you enjoy the thrill of riding a new roller-coaster because of the “scary” aspect of it, that is what this is like. The thrill of the unknown. Humiliation can also play a huge role in these kinds of activities. That, too, varies from person to person.

Here is a short list that I came up with while thinking about this post. These are not in any specific order, so you may have to read the entire list to find something you like. If you are like me, however, you may want your partner to see the whole list!

• Being forced to wear a chastity device
• Being bound and teased
• Being blindfolded
• Having ice rubbed on your body
• Nipple play (clips, clamps & suction)
• Being naked all day
• Electro-play (using an approved device)
• Being flogged, spanked, paddled (within reason)
• Being edged several times in one session then denied
• Prostate milking
• Ruined orgasm milking (several in one session)
• Being denied an orgasm
• Ruined orgasms
• Being punished for poor performance or disobedience (spanked, paddled or scolded)
• Being forced to wear butt-plugs
• Being fucked with strap-ons or dildos
• Being forced to cum by machine as many times as possible
• Being forced to drink your own cum
• CBT both real and fantasy
• Being denied an orgasm for an extended period
• Being forced to masturbate for Mistress
• Having suction cups applied to your nipples
• Being video recorded or photographed for the web
• Icy-Hot or other mentholated cream used on your cock, balls or anus
• Being fondled for a few minutes while Mistress gives you instructions
• Being cuckolded
• Being forced to suck another man's cock
• Giving Mistress a full body massage!

Though humiliations scare me, I love them. I love them because Mistress has demanded that I do them. If you feel the same way, here is a short list of humiliating activities.

List of humiliations:

• Having to masturbate for Mistress
• Exposing yourself to others
• Sitting naked on a punishment pad (such as a jute door mat)
• Having weights tied to your balls while you perform chores
• Wearing panties (especially crotchless) or other women's clothing in private or in public
• Wearing a butt-plug at any time (especially when in public)
• Sucking a dildo or strap-on
• Prostate milking (especially in front of others)
• Being fondled in public or semi-public (restaurant, theater, car, etc.)
• Being forced to drink your own (or someone else's) cum
• Being forced to wear women's lingerie (or just an apron)
• Being used outdoors in any way
• Being forced to suck a dildo
• Being forced to use a masturbation device (Tenga eggs for example)
• Being forced to fuck a blow up doll (especially if video recorded)
• Being dressed as a maid to serve Mistress (and/or others)
• Being bound and used by a group (males and females)
• Being forced to masturbate in front of Mistress and/or her friends
• Being teased by Mistress and another woman
• Being loaned out to another Mistress for a day
• Any Clothed Female/Naked Male (CFNM) scene

Sometimes, just talking about making you do any of these things can get you very aroused. Being aroused is what makes me want to serve Mistress. Talking to me about these things is a very good way for her to tease me sexually. Again, your list may vary, but I hope you get the idea.

slave nemo

The Milking

Mistress called me into the room where she and her two guests were sitting. All I was wearing was the tiny white apron and a pair of pink crotchless panties that Mistress allowed. I hesitated just before passing through the doorway to the living room. I had never been dressed this way in front of anyone other than Mistress before and I was terrified. However, I knew the consequences of failing to appear when Mistress called would be more painful than anything else I could think of.

I gathered my courage and stepped through the doorway into the living room. I could feel the eyes of the two women follow my every step as neared the couch where they sat. Mistress was sitting in a chair opposite the couch which meant that I would at least have my back to her guests. The humiliation I felt at having to stand in front of them, dressed as I was, was truly immense. I am certain my face had turned a bright shade of red.

“What can I do for you, Mistress,” I asked after performing a half curtsy.

“You can turn around and greet my guests properly,” she replied in a matter-of-fact tone of voice.

“Yes, Ma'am,” I replied, then slowly turned to face her two guests. “Welcome to our humble home, Ladies,” I said politely as I had been taught to do. “Is there anything I can get for you? Coffee, tea, or perhaps lemonade?”

“No, thank you,” they both replied.

“Tell me, Jenn,” the blonde woman sitting to my left asked, “is he in chastity?”

“Lift your apron, slave,” Jenn commanded.

I did as I was told and lifted the hem of my apron to reveal my cock and balls. They were, indeed, encased in a chastity device. Of course, my cock was visibly pressing against its confines and my balls were in clear view, hanging beneath the cage.

The other woman, who had red hair, asked, “Jenn, can you demonstrate how you milk him with his chastity device still in place?”

“Oh yes,” said the blonde. “I would love to see that, too.”

“Of course,” Jenn said as she rose from her seat. “On your knees, slave,” she ordered.

“Yes, Mistress,” I replied as I knelt down on all fours on the coffee table. It was customary that I be milked on the coffee table so that Mistress does not have to get down on the floor to do it. The coffee table put my exposed bottom in just the right position for her to do whatever she wanted to it, including milking my prostate.

By this time my cock was straining at the confines of its cage. It was painful, but not so much that I could not stand it. I know it was because of a combination of things... Two strange women, whose names I didn't even know, watching, and I always get turned on when Mistress decides to milk me. The worst part is that Mistress excused herself and quickly disappeared into the kitchen. I know she only went to get a rubber glove and some lubrication, but there I was, alone with two strange women, forced to stay on all fours on top of the coffee table, right in in front of them.

Needless to say, it seemed like Mistress was gone for an hour, though I am sure it was only a few minutes at most. One of the women, placed her hand on my bottom and leaned over to get a better look at my ass. The other one lifted up my apron and tucked it into the waist-belt so that she could see my cock and balls hanging down. Talk about humiliation! Boy was that ever embarrassing!

Finally, Mistress returned. She entered the room pulling on the rubber glove and holding the bottle of lube she had brought. She placed her gloved hand on my ass and explained that whenever she put anything into my ass, it needed to be well lubricated. With that, she poured some of the lube over the fingers of her gloved hand and quickly began fingering my tight little hole.

I could feel the textured portion of the fingertips of the glove as she spread the lubricant around the outside of the hole and then when she pushed one finger inside to make sure that was lubricated as well.

One of the ladies (the red-head) remarked that she had never tried this on her husband because she didn't really know what to do, so Mistress removed the glove and offered it to her. She took the glove and slipped her hand into it gently. “Now what?” she asked as she stepped behind me.

“Just work your middle finger into his ass and push it in until you can feel his prostate,” Mistress explained. “It's about the size of a walnut.”

The woman pushed her finger into my tight little hole and worked it in until she exclaimed, “I think I found it! What do I do now?”

“Just run your finger around it vigorously,” Mistress Explained, “and watch for the results.”

I could feel the woman's fingertip moving around my prostate and it didn't take more than a minute before she had my cum dripping rapidly from the end of my swollen cock. I was so glad that Mistress had not put the little spikes in my cock-cage. IF she had, I would have been in excruciating pain by this time.

Mistress held her hand under my cock and caught all the cum that seeped from my swollen, trapped member. When the last of it had dripped onto her palm, Mistress moved to offer it to me to drink. I always had to drink my own cum. It was expected, and I didn't dare embarrass Mistress by refusing to drink it. I do hate the taste, though, and much rather not drink it. But Since I have to do whatever Mistress tells me or suffer the consequences, I drank it all up.

The women both laughed and made a few jokes at my expense, but I endured. I always endure when it comes to Mistress' wishes.

nemo.slave7

I'm Baaaack...

I have not posted to this blog for quite some time. We won't go into the details of why, but suffice it to say, I am back and I plan to make some posts that I think you will like. I will post some stories about chastity, serving a Mistress, cuckolding, forced bi-sexuality, and just about anything else you can think of that goes along with being a male sub in a female led relationship.

I hope to cover some of the things that bother us subs and things in which we find delight, fantasies, teasing, denial, and all the rest. I hope you will sign up for email delivery (or at least return often) so that you don't miss a single post. I think you will enjoy the new blog posts. Maybe you can even give me some ideas that I can post about as well.

nemo