What Do You Want?

What are you actually looking for in a Female Led Relationship? Have you ever truly thought about it? Have you bothered to sit down and make a list of the things you want a Mistress to do to you, or what kind of Mistress you want? Have you actually made a list of things (or types of things) you would want her to do? Or have you simply fantasized about how it would be if you had your perfect Mistress? If you have only fantasized, have your fantasies evolved? Have they changed in any way? If you have a Mistress, have you expressed these changes in your fantasies to her?

I know that's a lot of questions to ask. But if you are like most of the other men I talk with (including myself) you probably realize that you have let things go too long without properly defining some of these things. At the very least, you may need to update your fantasies. That is, your fantasies have changed or evolved and you have not communicated these changes to your Mistress. If you are one of those who had to talk your partner into entering a FLR, you may not have kept her properly informed of the things she is doing right and those things you would like to change.

For example, I have noticed that many of my fantasies now include things that, when I first started out, I would never have even considered doing, much less found them erotic. But things change. Oh I still want her to engage in a great deal of tease and denial, cock teasing, or whatever you want to call it, but there are other things I would actually like to try that she still thinks are a definite “no-no” on my list.

If you look over the list of questions I asked at the beginning of this post, perhaps you will find some things that you need to do. If the regular cock teasing has lost some of its thrill, perhaps it's because you need to let your Mistress know about the changes in your fantasies so that she can use the information to heighten your enjoyment during your next session of tease and denial. At the risk of sounding like a broken record, communication is the key to happiness. Make your lists, sit down with your Mistress and communicate to her what is on those lists. After all, how else will she ever know what you like/want if you don't tell her?

Just be careful what you ask for... You may just get it!

nemo