That Special Moment

I just read a post by 'The Naked Husband' that clicked with me in a way I can't (yet) explain (but I'll try).

Unless you are one of the lucky ones (whose wife brought up the subject), at some point, you asked her to take charge of your sexual relationship. Perhaps you asked her to take charge of everything, but whatever you asked her for, you most likely had to convince her it would be to her benefit. You may have had to push her into attempting it, giving it a try.

If you were successful, and she really tried it, studied to learn what she needed to do, and finally she agreed that it was a good move, you rejoiced. But there comes a time (hopefully) when she realizes the power she holds and begins to truly enjoy it. That's the moment when you breath a sigh of relief because everything you have worked for has finally come true.

When your Mistress (wife, lover, girlfriend, boyfriend, whatever) finally realizes that teasing you and keeping you denied (whether chaste or not), is a fun thing to do, you know you have achieved your ultimate goal. From that moment on, life is really worth living.

It may seem, at times, that all this was aimed at getting you more sexual attention. Well, duh! But greater than that, is the fact that your relationship has become more of what it should have been all along. It is more fulfilling for the both of you. More rewarding. In fact, even though it may seem as if it was all designed to increase your sexual pleasure, your partner now understands that she can have the pleasure, the rewards, the joy that you both deserve.

So, if you are not yet at that point, don't give up. Persevere and you will eventually achieve the happiness you are both searching for. Be patient. It will happen if you just keep doing the things that you know will please her.

nemo