Humiliation of Masturbation

 I don't know about you, but masturbating in front of Mistress can be very humiliating. Especially when she wants it to be! Edging is especially difficult, because I know she won't let me cum on my own!

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Masturbation Fantasy

Just because the title says masturbation, don't think for a minute that this fantasy is about me taking things into my own hands. Not for a second!

I am actually talking about all those web-teases you find all over the internet. Yes, Mistress Ivey and I have started our own web-tease website, but this isn't a plug for that. What this is, in fact, is a serious discussion of another way to use those web-teases. A way for the chaste male (who actually has a key holder) to utilize them.

I know that 98+% of web-teases are written for men who don't have key holders, or who aren't even into chastity at all. Let's face it, they are designed to attract men who would otherwise not have a partner to tease them, to have some fun (pain even) with their masturbation. I very much doubt that such sites would work if aimed at the female of the species. There are various reasons for that, which I am not prepared to go into in this post. But if you think about it, women (in general) are just not as interested in that sort of thing as we men.

Okay, now you have managed to find (or convince) a partner to be your key holder, Mistress, Master, or whatever they prefer to be called, to lock you up and tease you sexually while still denying you an orgasm, or at least, a full orgasm for some period of time. But what happens when the novelty of it all begins to wear off? I mean, what happens when she gets tired of having to tease you and deny you, even when she gets what she wants from you? What happens when her imagination has pretty much run the gambit of tease and torment ideas she has?

Well, the obvious answer is that things slow down. The teasing gradually becomes mundane, even boring (perhaps for you both) and life is not as exciting as it was when things first got started. What you need at that point (or before you reach that point) is an infusion of new ideas! But where can you turn? Let's face it, most of the stories you find all over the Internet are pretty repetitive. That is, once you have read a couple dozen of them, there is nothing new in any of the others.

Web-tease can be your answer. There are so many things that a woman can learn from a web-tease site if she will only take the time to read a few. Yes, they are mainly about masturbation. But does your KH make you do anything like what these teases ask of you? Probably not. But read a few for yourself, and see if you don't start fantasizing about your KH making you do some of the things these web-teases expect you to do. If you do, then I have some simple advice for you.

Talk with your KH. Tell her which ones you read and how they made you feel. Ask her to read a few for herself. If she reads them she just might come up with a few ideas of her own. New ways to tease you, and torment you. She might even get excited about teasing you more often. Wouldn't that be great!?

So, whether you use the site Mistress and I have set up, or any of the other web-tease sites out there, makes no difference. But I strongly recommend that you give it a try. Hey, it can't hurt!

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Disappointment

Disappointment is something we (chastised males) have to get used to. But there are disappointments, and then there are disappointments. I hope yours are never like this!

Happy Thanksgiving!
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Captioned Photo: Don't touch!

There are times in a man's life when he can't seem to keep him mind on what he knows he should, even though he knows it might get him into trouble. It at those times when when so often forgets his place and throws caution to the wind...

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Humor

"Humor... It's a difficult concept." Or so says Kirsty Alley in a Star Trek movie. Well, I say humor is more like beauty... It's in the eye of the beholder. That is, it's funny, depending on your point of view. Otherwise, it can just be scary! I offer the following as examples of what I mean...

See what I mean?

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Longer Waits

Mistress recently concluded a poll that indicated many of us want to wait longer between orgasms. Well, here is a series of captioned photos that should make you think about what you are asking for. After all, we all know we should be careful about that...

That Special Moment

I just read a post by 'The Naked Husband' that clicked with me in a way I can't (yet) explain (but I'll try).

Unless you are one of the lucky ones (whose wife brought up the subject), at some point, you asked her to take charge of your sexual relationship. Perhaps you asked her to take charge of everything, but whatever you asked her for, you most likely had to convince her it would be to her benefit. You may have had to push her into attempting it, giving it a try.

If you were successful, and she really tried it, studied to learn what she needed to do, and finally she agreed that it was a good move, you rejoiced. But there comes a time (hopefully) when she realizes the power she holds and begins to truly enjoy it. That's the moment when you breath a sigh of relief because everything you have worked for has finally come true.

When your Mistress (wife, lover, girlfriend, boyfriend, whatever) finally realizes that teasing you and keeping you denied (whether chaste or not), is a fun thing to do, you know you have achieved your ultimate goal. From that moment on, life is really worth living.

It may seem, at times, that all this was aimed at getting you more sexual attention. Well, duh! But greater than that, is the fact that your relationship has become more of what it should have been all along. It is more fulfilling for the both of you. More rewarding. In fact, even though it may seem as if it was all designed to increase your sexual pleasure, your partner now understands that she can have the pleasure, the rewards, the joy that you both deserve.

So, if you are not yet at that point, don't give up. Persevere and you will eventually achieve the happiness you are both searching for. Be patient. It will happen if you just keep doing the things that you know will please her.

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Captioned Photo: Firey

Ah, yes. You can still remember the fire in her eyes before you were married, the passion, the fierce determination she had in everything she did. You can remember the twinkle in that same eye when you asked her to be your Mistress and to control you and your orgasms. Perhaps you should have remembered her quick temper whenever something didn't go her way...

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Captioned Photo: Waiting to cum

So often your Mistress might be willing to tell you when you can expect to ejaculate. I have been able to decide if I want to know when it will happen, or be left in the dark until it does. After all, I like surprises. Well, I like some surprises. But there are times when I want something to look forward to. In the following photos I leave it to you to decide...

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Captioned Photo: Lost Key

Then are times when things just don't seem to go right. Like when Mistress loses the key. Desperate times call for desperate measures...

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Captioned Photo: Spare Key

Men are so impatient at times. Sometimes it seems we can't wait for Mistress to give us that orgasm she promised so long ago. In fact, some guys find ways around their cages. Sometimes Mistress' don't like us doing that.

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Captioned Photo: Can't?

I have noticed that once you give a woman control over your genitals (as in chastity), even if you asked her to take control, there are certain things that you just should NEVER say to her. The most important being, "You can't do that." Here's one example of why...

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Captioned Photos - Second Thoughts

As chastity slaves (and that is what we are when we are all locked up) we know what we want. Well, we think we know what we want, anyway. However, there are times when have second thoughts about what we have asked for...

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Captioned Photo (Spikes)

Don't you hate it when your PC (hard drive in particular) goes down and you have to make do with a temporary replacement. Especially when you have lost all your photos! I have an online backup but I have to wait until I purchase a new PC in order to download them. Anyway, it's not as bad as being teased until the spikes in your chastity device bring you to your knees (like in this photo)...

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