As a sub/slave there are times when I
wish Mistress would tease me more than she does. You may think I am
just greedy, but there have been weeks at a time that I received no
teasing what so ever. Now I know that it is entirely up to Mistress
to decide when, where, and how I am teased. But frankly, there are
times when I feel I am being ignored.
I have a suspicion I am not alone in
this. I have seen comments (and received a few) that indicate some
other guys get the same feeling from time to time. I can't speak for
them, but in my case, it's a matter of mismatched libidos. That is, I
want it, she doesn't. I suppose, if I were in a non-chaste situation,
that is, a marriage that does not include male chastity, I might be
able to sit down and discuss it with her. But as a slave, I really
can't do that.
I have made the efforts. That is, I
have done my chores, offered to pleasure her, dropped hints, and even
steered conversations in that directed. However, I have been met with
the same responses over and over again. She just isn't interested in
sex.
Now that's scary! I have to wonder, is
it me? Or is it really her lack of drive? I keep getting told that it
is really her lack of drive, but I have been totally unable to find
any sort of stimulant that will get her “in the mood” when I
desperately need some attention. I always feel as if it's my fault. I
suppose that is because, as a slave, I always think there should be
something more I could do, but that really isn't the case.
I know in my heart that she is often
just too busy to bother tending to my needs, but that isn't always
the case, either. There are other times when she just plain doesn't
have the sex drive that I wish she did, let alone one as strong as
mine. I also know there are so often other things in her life that
detract from our sexual togetherness.
In the past, pre-chastity, I could have
(and often did) take matters into my own hands, and life went on.
But, of course, my chastity sort of gets in the way, if you know what
I mean. So masturbation is definitely NOT the answer.
I guess my only recourse is to sit back
and wait until she gets “in the mood” and be happy with what
little attention I do get. But I am guessing that I am not alone.
There must be others out there who have (or have had) this problem.
So, what have you done in this situation? Or what would you suggest
that I do?
nemo
