Captioned Photo: Cleanup

There are times when what we want may differ from what we get. That's why our motto is: Be Careful What You Ask For. But there are also those times when what we get is MORE than what we wanted. So what's your complaint?

nemo

Xmas Orgasm

Well, I am one of the many who got a Xmas orgasm. Okay, it wasn't a full orgasm. Mistress made sure I understood that it was a gift for us both. That is, I got to cum, and she got to ruin it. Whatever makes her happy. Right!?

It wasn't all bad. After all, an orgasm is an orgasm. I have learned that, if nothing else in my years as a sex slave. (Well, that's how I like to think of myself.) I don't know about the rest of you, but I'll take any orgasm I can get. Yes, I enjoy the fact that I am made to wait a good long time between full orgasms, but a number of ruined orgasms, as long as they make Mistress happy, are something I am proud to give her.

So, if you ask me what I got for Xmas this year, I'll tell you an orgasm. If you ask Mistress what I got, she will tell you it was ruined. One of the few joys in life for Mistress, is ruining my orgasms, especially if I think it won't be ruined.

Anyway, I hope you all had a very merry Xmas and I wish you a great New Year!

nemo

Xmas is Here!

Well, it's that time of year, again. The snow is falling (in places) and the mistletoe has been hung. Perhaps I should have put on my belt? Anyway, this is the time for good will toward men (and women, of course) and the time to give without thought of reward. For those of us in chastity, it means doing the unexpected for our Key Holders.

I will not reveal what I have planned, or what I got Mistress for Xmas, but I only hope it will be greatly appreciated. I know it's the thought that counts, but sometimes we hope for more!

Like many men in chastity, I hope for a Christmas full of joy and, maybe, some “relief”? For those of you in chastity, I hope you get the relief you have been so patiently(?) awaiting, if that's what you want. And may your KH be kind.

Nemo

Not Being Teased

As a sub/slave there are times when I wish Mistress would tease me more than she does. You may think I am just greedy, but there have been weeks at a time that I received no teasing what so ever. Now I know that it is entirely up to Mistress to decide when, where, and how I am teased. But frankly, there are times when I feel I am being ignored.

I have a suspicion I am not alone in this. I have seen comments (and received a few) that indicate some other guys get the same feeling from time to time. I can't speak for them, but in my case, it's a matter of mismatched libidos. That is, I want it, she doesn't. I suppose, if I were in a non-chaste situation, that is, a marriage that does not include male chastity, I might be able to sit down and discuss it with her. But as a slave, I really can't do that.

I have made the efforts. That is, I have done my chores, offered to pleasure her, dropped hints, and even steered conversations in that directed. However, I have been met with the same responses over and over again. She just isn't interested in sex.

Now that's scary! I have to wonder, is it me? Or is it really her lack of drive? I keep getting told that it is really her lack of drive, but I have been totally unable to find any sort of stimulant that will get her “in the mood” when I desperately need some attention. I always feel as if it's my fault. I suppose that is because, as a slave, I always think there should be something more I could do, but that really isn't the case.

I know in my heart that she is often just too busy to bother tending to my needs, but that isn't always the case, either. There are other times when she just plain doesn't have the sex drive that I wish she did, let alone one as strong as mine. I also know there are so often other things in her life that detract from our sexual togetherness.

In the past, pre-chastity, I could have (and often did) take matters into my own hands, and life went on. But, of course, my chastity sort of gets in the way, if you know what I mean. So masturbation is definitely NOT the answer.

I guess my only recourse is to sit back and wait until she gets “in the mood” and be happy with what little attention I do get. But I am guessing that I am not alone. There must be others out there who have (or have had) this problem. So, what have you done in this situation? Or what would you suggest that I do?

nemo

Captioned Photos: What?

I've asked "why" so it only seems right to ask "what" now. What, as in: What did you say? Or: what do mean? Or even: What have I gotten myself into!? These are questions we often ask ourselves when faced with options or choices, or the results there of, that are not what we expected. Here are some "What?" photos for your approval...

So... What do you think?

nemo

Captioned Photo: Why?

Sometimes, because we want her to do things that put us in our place. Sometimes because we like to be treated like she owns us. But there are times when the 'what' and the 'why' don't really add up in our minds, but we must submit anyway...

nemo

Captioned Photos: How Long?

One of our (chastised males) favorite fantasies seems to be the possibility of longer and longer periods of  orgasm denial. I don't even know what the attraction is and I have these fantasies myself. I guess that's why they make such a good subject for captioned photos. Whether it's been a week, a month, or even longer, we always seem to want more. And if teasing is included, well, we just can't get enough...

nemo